Wheels of change

Our first family car, a Morris Minor in the 1960s:
Car number - JA 1395

It was a beautiful Sunday morning. I was driving my mother in my new car to Seremban to visit my aunt. In this modern age, a car is a necessity. As long as public transport is inefficient, people will continue to drive their own cars to get to their destination.   

Many of us seniors have been driving since the age of 18. We still need to drive, whether it is to work, to shop, to pay bills, to visit family and friends, to attend functions, to go for recreation or to run errands (for children, grandchildren or elderly parents). As long as we are healthy, have good vision and hearing, and we avoid peak hours, we hope to drive well into our golden years.    

That morning, I was driving on the slow lane of the highway. A lorry moving in front was a wee bit slow. I flashed my right indicator light and eased into the fast lane to overtake it. The driver of a car, who was very far behind, honked annoyingly. He accelerated and came very close to my car, almost kissing it.   

After overtaking the lorry, I moved back to the slow lane with as much calm as I could muster. Within seconds, the same car overtook me. I glanced at the driver. He stared angrily at me, and he gave me the finger. Mr Kiasu’s young handsome looks were somehow spoiled by his ugly behaviour.   

Mr Kiasu did not go far. Soon a queue built up on the fast lane. I heard a screeching sound as he applied the brakes. Crash! I did not wait to find out what happened!  

Why are some drivers in such a hurry? Does it matter if they arrive at a certain place 10 minutes later? When accidents happen, it is not only the injured who suffer but their family members, friends and other road users too, not to mention the wastage of money and invaluable time.   

Once upon a time, it was a pleasure to own a car and drive around town. I remember our first family car, a Morris Minor, in the 1960s. Although not equipped with air-conditioning, radio or compact disc player, it took us places and taught us family values.  

 

Our family car took us places and taught us family values

During weekends and school holidays, my family members and relatives (nine of us young kids, packed like sardines in the small car) enjoyed picnic trips to Templer's Park, Morib, Port Dickson and Mimaland. 

My siblings and I, together with our cousins, remember fondly those fun-filled days of swimming in Morib and Port Dickson, listening to music or our tiny transistor radio and then savouring my mother's curry chicken in the open air.
 

With my mother, siblings and cousins in Morib family: 24 Sept 1962

With my siblings and cousins in Morib:23 April 1966

We used to travel to Kuala Lumpur to watch epic movies. Driving on the old trunk road was relaxing with fresh air, blue skies and green rubber estates for company. For entertainment, we sang our favourite songs (called “oldies” now) throughout the journey.  

Cars of the 1960s were manually operated. We locked car doors using keys and we wind up the car windows by turning a handle below it. We changed gears, from one to four, while accelerating. It  was challenging to change gears without any jerky action. I remember my poor instructor’s anguish when I could not coordinate the clutch and accelerator properly during my driving lessons. Now most cars have automatic gears with functions of drive, reverse, neutral and parking.

On rainy days, driving was distressing. The windscreen wipers could clear the water externally but internally the mist that formed had to be continuously wiped with a piece of cloth. And there was no demister in the rear window – your passengers had to wipe the window dry for you. 

There were no indicator lights for turning right or left. Instead, I had to stretch my right hand out of the window for a right turn, or rotate it anticlockwise to turn left. Some cars had a cute contraption – an eight-inch long ruler-like plastic light – that flicked out from the side panel between the front and rear car-door windows. However, the outstretched hand was a better indicator, although you have to be sure cars do not overtake you at that moment! 

In the 1960s, an outstretched hand like this means I am turning right

Most people could only afford second-hand cars, which often stalled along the roadside due to overheating. Sometimes drivers tried to kick-start the engines themselves using an L-shaped metal bar to crank it back to life.  

During those good old days, drivers and other road users were considerate and helpful. They often gave way to others (women, children, senior citizens and four-legged road-users) with a friendly wave of the hand and a pleasant smile.  

Neighbours were always ready to lend a helping hand. Once, my car could not start and they helped me push it downhill to kick-start the engine. Nowadays, if your car breaks down, you have to call for help (the mechanic, the Automobile Association of Malaysia or the Highway Patrol) on your mobile phone. And you have to be wary of bad hats like thieves, rapists etc. 

Driving was less stressful then. Instead of traffic lights, there were many roundabouts at junctions which ensured smooth driving. However, we had to look out for pedestrians, bicycles, trishaws, motorcycles and the occasional cow or goat.   

Coming back to the present, high technology has made cars easier to handle and efficient to drive. The modern car with touch-button accessories are a boon to seniors.   

 

When I first got my new car, I was apprehensive of the numerous controls and buttons on the dashboard and driver’s door. I had to learn the functions of all the controls before I drive on the road.. I discovered what was amiss when the buzzers or flickering lights came on. I like the power-steering and beeping sounds for reversing which helped me greatly in parallel parking. This is because I am hopeless at parking.  

Numerous controls on the dashboard

 

Many buttons on the car door

I also like the fact that the all the doors are automatically locked soon after I start driving. The rear doors are child-protected for they can be opened from the outside only. This is good when young children or the elderly are in the car. The presence of safety belts, airbags and other safety features give me added confidence when I am on the road.  

 

I’m beginning to enjoy my high-tech car. Just like old cars evolving through the years, changes occur in our life too. If we are willing to learn new things, to accept changes and to adapt to them, our life can be happier and more pleasant.

My hitech car

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This article was published in the Star (Malaysian newspaper) on 16th August 2004. It is edited and photos are included here.

In 2004, I learnt how to handle my modern hitech car and enjoyed the mobility it provided. Now, in 2016, I am still learning and enjoying my "old faithful" hitech car which is 12 years old.

    

Cliff Richard: A memorable concert

At a memorable Sir Cliff Richard Concert Sir Cliff Richard came on stage. His first song was The Young Ones. It started a spontaneous sing-a-long by 6000 spirited seniors. This song brought back memories of a time when we were "the young ones".  Many years ago, in 2007, I attended a Cliff Richard Concert with my husband and friends at the Arena of Stars in Genting Highlands. The music resonating through the arena was overwhelming. It evoked memories of the good old days. Every time Cliff Richard sang, strumming his guitar at times, the mature audience responded with applause and singalongs. Richard was friendly and jovial on stage appreciating the applause and the many bouquets of flowers that fans continually presented to him. Although he looked older than when we were teenagers, his singing and lithe movements on stage were as appealing and captivating as we remembered. Richard: friendly and jovial on stage Richard sang other melodies that brought back memories of the 1960s like Summer Holiday, Living Doll, When the Girl in your Arms, Constantly, Evergreen Tree and Bachelor Boy.   In the 1960s, Richard was our teenage idol. We listened to his songs on the radio or watched his movies in the cinema. Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that I would one day see him in person, but on that unforgettable night, I was there, completely captivated, with the rest of the audience, - listening to and actually seeing my teenage idol on stage.  As I sat there enjoying the songs, my mind went back to my teenage years. Our generation listened to songs from the radio or from vinyl records played on record players. Later we listened to audio tapes.  The current younger generation listen to music on compact discs or MP3's with music downloaded from the Internet. Many of them watch their singing idols on video compact discs or on television. Youth today is exposed to highly entertaining television programmes like American Idol compared to our simple talentine contests in schools. One of the favourite pastimes of my teenage contemporaries and myself was to slavishly copy the words of songs we loved, often with neat cursive handwriting. We would decorate our songbooks with creative designs and paste photos of our heartthrob next to their songs. That could be the reason why many of us seniors have good handwriting!   Coming back to the present, I looked around me at the full house arena. The fans present were a diverse multiracial group. Most were from the Klang Valley in Malaysia, but some came from Canada, Australia, Hong Kong and even Portugal. This was revealed when Richard asked with a show of hands where the audience came from.  Many of the fans were seniors, with some coming in wheelchairs and others with walking sticks. There were a few who were visually impaired. I was touched to see some young adults accompanying their elderly seniors and guiding them deferentially to their seats.    Audience: multiracial group of seniors Richard, in a sparkling white suit, was in his element, belting out number after number for an hour, to an appreciative audience. After a 15-minute break, he was back again, dressed in groovy jeans and springing sprightly on stage.  Richard in a sparkling white suit, belting out our favourite songs “Some people say I’m not cool…because I’m hot!” said Richard, as he sizzled and wiggled his lithe body to fast music for the second half of the concert. Richard is a senior who works hard all his life, continuously doing the things he is good at and enjoying it. While many Malaysians retire at 55-60, this 67-year (at the time of the concert) consummate artiste is not slowing down. He does not want to retire, saying that he would continue to work as long as he is physically able to. Like his song, Move It, Richard moves on. He tries out new ways to spice up his singing. He has produced a compact disc called Two’s Company by inviting famous artistes to sing popular duets with him. Some of these singers are Matt Monro, Dionne Warwick, Elton John, Olivia Newton-John, Anne Murray, Lulu and Hank Marvin. That evening, together with some guest artistes, Richard sang some of the songs from his duet album.  Currently, Sir Cliff Richard at age 75, who started his career in the 1950s, is still singing and entertaining young and old fans alike. He has the drive to continue working for as long as he is able to, showing that age is not a barrier if you want to follow your dream.  Attending the concert was a dream come true for me. It was memorable, and every time I listen to Cliff Richard's songs, it reminds me of that nostalgic night. ...................................................................................................................

If you are a Cliff Richard fan, listen to his songs in "The Countdown Concert" Part 1 and Part 11, where the versatile singer sang a variety of popular songs that cover the decades 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s and 90s.